🌿 What’s Really Holding You Back from Living the Life You Want?

You’ve likely felt it.

That quiet (or maybe not-so-quiet) longing to live life differently.
To slow down.
To step off the treadmill.
To travel with more intention, live with more freedom, and maybe even feel like yourself again.

For many, this dream takes the shape of long-term travel or a minimalist lifestyle.
A campervan. A beach town in Vietnam. A slower rhythm.
Something simpler. Something more real.

But then
 the fear creeps in.

And before long, the dream feels far away again.

You might tell yourself it’s about finances.
Or logistics.
Or timing.
Or “what ifs.”

But from what I’ve seen—not just in my own life, but in the lives of those I work with as a counsellor and mindfulness teacher—
those outer obstacles are rarely the whole story.


🧠 What’s Really in the Way?

It’s often the inner stories that hold us back the most.

Stories like:

  • The Failure Story – “What if I try and it all falls apart?”
  • The Security Story – “I need everything to be safe and certain before I can start.”
  • The Self-Worth Story – “Who am I to think I deserve a different life?”
  • The Belonging Story – “What will people think if I walk away from the life they expect me to live?”

These aren’t just thoughts.
They’re deep-rooted narratives shaped by our past, our upbringing, and the culture we live in.
They become the background noise of our lives—until we start noticing them.


đŸŒ± Awareness is the First Step

In my latest video, I unpack these stories with honesty and kindness.

I don’t offer quick fixes.
I don’t believe in bulldozing over fear or “just thinking positive.”
What I do believe in is this:

When we become aware of our inner stories, we create space to choose something different.
Not because the fear disappears
 but because we’re no longer letting it drive.


📘 Want to Explore This More Deeply?

I’ve written a free eBook that dives into exactly this.

It’s called “Using Mindfulness to Change Your Life,” and it’s an 80-page guide to help you:

  • Recognize the thoughts and beliefs running your life
  • Understand how your nervous system responds to fear and uncertainty
  • Connect with your Wise Self—your calm, grounded inner awareness
  • Create space between your fear and your next decision

✹ Download it for free here:
👉 https://gotravelmindfully.com


Whether you’re preparing to travel, simplify, or just start living more deliberately, this video and eBook are for you.

You don’t need to have it all figured out.
You just need to start noticing.

With kindness,
Mark
Go Travel Mindfully

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